Understanding Polyvagal Theory

The Science of Safety, Connection, and Healing

“Through a polyvagal lens, we understand that actions are automatic and adaptive, generated by the autonomic nervous system well below the level of conscious awareness – with this new awareness, the door opens to compassion.”

— Deb Dana, The Polyvagal Theory in Therapy

Understanding Polyvagal Theory

The Science of Safety, Connection, and Healing

“Through a polyvagal lens, we understand that actions are automatic and adaptive, generated by the autonomic nervous system well below the level of conscious awareness – with this new awareness, the door opens to compassion.”

— Deb Dana, The Polyvagal Theory in Therapy

Why Polyvagal Theory Matters

At the heart of trauma recovery, relational healing, and emotional resilience lies one critical system: the autonomic nervous system. Polyvagal Theory, developed by Dr. Stephen Porges, offers a groundbreaking map of how the body responds to safety and threat - moment to moment - through three primary pathways.

Understanding your nervous system’s responses is essential for healing, embodiment, and restoring connection.

The Nervous System as a Compass

As Dr. Dan Siegel explains, a resilient nervous system allows us to move between activation (stress, excitement) and calm (ease, rest) in a smooth and adaptable way. This flexibility—known as vagal tone—is a key indicator of physical, emotional, and relational health.

The autonomic nervous system manages automatic functions like breathing, digestion, and heart rate. It’s constantly processing neuroceptive input - the subconscious scanning of our inner and outer world for cues of safety or danger.

Coined by Porges, neuroception refers to our body's ability to assess threat or safety through interoception (inner sensation), exteroception (environmental input), and even collective energetic fields.

The Three Pathways of the Autonomic Nervous System

Polyvagal Theory outlines three key neural circuits:

Dorsal Vagal (Freeze/Shut Down)

  • Oldest system, shared with reptiles
  • Activated in overwhelm or helplessness
  • In health: supports deep rest and stillness

Sympathetic Nervous System (Fight/Flight)

  • Mobilizes us into action under stress
  • In health: supports exercise, play, and productivity

Ventral Vagal (Social Engagement System)

  • Unique to mammals
  • Regulates facial expression, tone of voice, heart rate, and relational safety
  • In health: fosters connection, empathy, curiosity, and co-regulation

Learn More About Polyvagal Theory

Explore these trusted resources to deepen your understanding:

Websites:
Polyvagal Institute
Restorative Practice Alliance

Books:
Book Recommendations to Better Understand Polyvagal Theory:

Our Polyvagal World – Stephen Porges and Seth Porges
The Neurobiology of Connection - Gabriel Kram
The Polyvagal Theory in Therapy – Deb Dana
Anchored – Deb Dana
Safe and Sound - Porges and Ordenko

The Neurobiology of Connection: Re-Wilding Your Deep Nervous System for Wellbeing
- Natureza Gabriel


Podcasts:
Embodied Neurobiology of Connection with Gabriel Kram